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The Top Five Regrets of the Dying

A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing

by Bronnie Ware

A palliative care worker shares the most common regrets she heard from people at the end of life.

  • Published 2011
  • Easy read
  • Stories and memoir
  • 1 min analysis
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Introduction

Bronnie Ware, an Australian who worked in palliative care, wrote a blog post about the regrets her patients expressed. It went viral, and she expanded it into a book published in 2011.

The five regrets include wishing they'd had the courage to live true to themselves and wishing they hadn't worked so hard.

Who should read this book?

Anyone wanting perspective on what matters most in life.

Helps with: Find purpose and direction, Heal and grow

The central message

Live true to yourself, work less, express feelings, stay in touch with friends and let yourself be happy.

Key ideas and concepts

  1. Live true to yourself

    Not the life others expect.

  2. Don't work so hard

    Many regretted missing time with loved ones.

  3. Express your feelings

    Suppressing feelings caused regret.

  4. Stay in touch with friends

    Friendships matter at the end.

  5. Let yourself be happier

    Happiness is partly a choice.

Deeper analysis

The Top Five Regrets of the Dying is moving and offers powerful perspective. The five regrets are memorable and prompt reflection.

Much of the book is the author's memoir, which some readers find less interesting than the regrets themselves. The regrets come from personal observation, not formal research. It's a valuable reminder.

Practical applications

  • Write what living true to yourself would mean.
  • Schedule time with loved ones.
  • Express a feeling you've held back.
  • Contact an old friend.
  • Choose one joyful activity.

Your 7-day action plan

  1. Day 1

    Reflect on regrets.

  2. Day 2

    Live true to yourself.

  3. Day 3

    Review work balance.

  4. Day 4

    Express a feeling.

  5. Day 5

    Call a friend.

  6. Day 6

    Choose happiness.

  7. Day 7

    Reflect.

Outcomes to expect

What readers who apply this book can realistically take away from it:

  • Perspective
  • Better balance
  • Stronger relationships
  • Courage

Strengths and limitations

Strengths

  • Moving
  • Memorable regrets
  • Powerful perspective
  • Accessible

Limitations

  • Memoir-heavy
  • Not formal research
  • Personal observations

Reflection questions

  1. Which regret do you fear most?
  2. Are you living true to yourself?
  3. Who have you lost touch with?
  4. What feeling are you holding back?

About the author

Bronnie Ware

Author of The Top Five Regrets of the Dying.

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Book details (title, author, year) are factual. Everything under the headings above is MindsetProdigy's own editorial analysis and interpretation, written to help you decide whether to read the book and how to apply it. It is not a substitute for reading the book itself. Last updated October 2, 2026.